How Others Will Succeed in 2009
Key secret to goal success
I recently received a request from
Stephanie Hartman, a major book promoter and publisher. The
request was on "what makes goals work".
Now I've taught various goal setting segments
for years in my training with mixed results. So I ask
those that moved forward in their lives what made the
goals work for them?
There is one key element these goal successes
had that all the rest did not! I find this element in my
own success as well.
Let's start with the standard stuff of
goals. You
have to set goals, you need to write them down, you have
to look at them, they need to be your goals, they need to
be specific, they need a time table, they need a deadline
and even more standard comments we have all most likely
heard.
You and I have tried all of this with some
success and some not so great success. So what is missing
here?
In my discussions with the most successful goal
achievers they indicated all the elements listed above
were part of their goal setting and achieving! The
difference was where their focus was coming
from!
Focus is the key to goal achievement!
Each of the successful goal achievers could do
the following…
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Describe a future picture of what their life or
business would look like in the future.
·
The future picture was clear and was real to
them as though it was happening today.
·
They could taste, smell, feel and hear this
future today.
·
They could describe a specific type of life
style in detail.
·
Their future picture was based on specific
values and motives that were important to
them.
·
Others such as family, partners and clients were
part of the future picture.
·
They believed the future picture was
possible!
Now weather you are an individual or a
corporation, the same applies! If you and your team have
a clear shared vision (future picture) of what you are
trying to become, can describe this clearly to others and
discuss it all the time, IT WILL HAPPEN!
Please notice I said individual or a
corporation! That's right, if you are leading a company
or organization, can your team members describe the
future picture they are working towards? Can
you?
Without this clarity and focus, goals may simply
become an exercise in futility. Yes we do all the steps
and take all the actions, but because there is no
ultimate objective (future picture) the goals and actions
have limited effect or power.
The sales team gets its goals for the year. Oh
great, they want another 10% out of me again, more work
with less pay! Why do we get this response? Because the
view is short sighted, there is not future picture to
focus on, it is not seen as a journey with an end; just
more work!
Ask anyone to make even the smallest change in
their life and you'll get the response; "Why should I" in
some form or another. This indicates the need for a
focus, a reason, a future outcome in order to change even
a little!
Without a focus (future picture) all of the
barriers to goal setting much less achieving come into
play. Such barriers as:
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Fear of failure
·
Fear of Success
·
Fear of change
·
Conformity
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Fear of pain of change
One can do an article on each of these and I
have. (Past Articles)
The key is to understand the power focus (future
picture) has on overcoming these barriers, often times
with very little effort! Most of the successful goal
achievers indicate many of these barriers just did not
exist once the focus (future picture) was established in
their mind, the focus overwhelmed the
barriers!
So how do you create this focus (future
picture)? Simply by starting to write down what you want
out of life! No big plan or 12 step project, simply write
down what and who you would like to be, what life style
you would like to have, what values and motives you want
as your guides, who do you want along on the ride, what
are the sounds, feel, smells and tastes in this picture,
can you believe the picture!
If you find yourself doubting the picture you
have created, then focus on a smaller part of the picture
that can lead to the larger one. You have to be able to
believe the picture, even if it is a stretch.
This is a process and may take more than one
sitting and probably more than 5 minutes. Revisit what
you have written and refine and add to it until it starts
to become a clear driving force in your mind and
heart.
Once this happens the goal setting and achieving
will be a natural outcome, not a laborious task and
threat! You'll find yourself setting new goals and doing
so with more energy and without all the fear you may have
experienced in the past! All of those key points to
setting goals will take place and have more power because
of the focus.
Ok, that's the secret to goal setting and
achievement. What are you going to do about
it?
It's your life, your career and your future
picture! Where is that pen and paper?
To your success in 2009!
Harlan Goerger, President, H. Goerger &
Associates.com

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